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I think they'd rather spend time with loved ones.
No, that’s what they want, to be with their families, only that they be higher than Keef Richards, circa 1968. That way they not only get to say g’bye to their relatives, they also get to say g’bye to Papa Smurf, Waldo the Unicorn, and all the various Star Wars creatures coming out of the wallpaper. “I’m comin’ to join you, Boba Fett ! This is the big one !”