I guess I should have mentioned that the support groups are mainly hosted by Christian organizations.
I reckon that God forgives us a lot easier than we forgive ourselves, sometimes.
Those groups are full of broken women who will never forgive themselves...let alone justify it.
I’ve read some stuff from folks that work as post-abortive counselors.
They say that most of the women that turn to Christ and know they are forgiven are still haunted with the personal guilt.
We can never justify it, but after a few years of feeling God's forgiveness, I at least managed to forgive myself.