Most of what the women do is the same as the men. There are a few weight adjustments, but in something like MCMAP (Marine Corps Martial Arts Program) the women fight against the men. My daughter (Sgt, USMC) is in one of the higher MCMAP ranks, and between that, being qualified in M-16’s, M-9’s, M-1014’s and a few other things she doesn’t tell me about, you probably would not want to get on her bad side.
The average man with MCMAP skills would likely kick the crap out of the average woman with the same skill set.
I wouldn't want to get on your daughters bad side, but I'm not a 20 year old kid any longer.