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You wrote:

“Why should I go to another thread when this one’s just fine?”

If you think this thread is fine, I’d love to see your example of one gone bad.

“I’m not beating Buc anymore than he’s been willing to dish out to others.”

I don’t think that’s what’s happening. You are attacking him. So far you’ve basically told him his wife cheated because he didn’t measure up, he should have no right to be in his child’s life, and so on. Now, I read through the posts and between you and Buc you CLEARLY started anything that could be called inappropriate when you said this in post #36: “If you want a say in how child support is spent...why aren’t you with the mother of your children?”

Your presumption there is, well, breathtaking. I think Buc has handled himself well here. Even if you disagree with his opinions, did you have to be presumptive?

“If he can’t handle the same....maybe he should reconsider his posts.”

Can’t handle the same? Again, you asked that rather presumptive question in post 36. I just scanned the posts before that and saw nothing that Buc said that warranted any comment of that nature. He did say he was speaking from experience, but at that point he had not told you why he was not with his wife. And when he did, you made the incredibly insensitive comment that you keep your spouse happy - as if Buc was responsible for his wife cheating on him.

I’m not looking for an argument with you, but where to you get off making such presumptive comments about someone you don’t know and who clearly had said little to nothing for you to go on? Weren’t you just shooting completely in the dark? Not only have you apparently concluded it’s all his fault, but you almost seem to find pleasure in the fact that Buc has suffered. Is that what a normal person would do? Is it normal to mock people over failed marriages when they were the spouse cheated on?

1. Buc complained that child support is essentially whatever women want to spend it on....due to his experience. Not only is that another of many slams he's made against women in this thread, he's hardly a victim here. If he wants a say in how someone else runs their household, then he needs to find a way to be a part of it otherwise it's none of his business.

2.Buc made several comments against women in this thread and like it or not, women are a part of this forum. Poor arguments combined with inane generalizations about groups of people probably won't bring you any peace. LOL

3.If Buc isn't able to handle the consequences of his poorly thought through opinions, then maybe someone could lend him a clue.