This is quite different from someone who finds themselves unintentionally pregnant and makes the right choice to carry the child to term. This is a selfish woman thinking only of her own desires, and giving no thought whatsoever to the needs of the child.
So, no, spending money and chasing around trying to get a human toy to fulfill selfish desires is NOT the 'life' position as you call it.
“So, no, spending money and chasing around trying to get a human toy to fulfill selfish desires is NOT the ‘life’ position as you call it.”
A human toy? What one thinks about single women using a sperm bank to conceive is one thing, but reducing any woman’s desire for children to a desire for a human toy is a little bizarre. You don’t know her motives. And, any human who desires a child might also be wishing for a “human toy”, including married couples. There is no shortage of fathers or mothers who have their egos far too involved in their children’s lives: toddler beauty pageants, sports at all levels, the opportunities are endless for every sort of parent.;
So a woman trying to fulfill her basic instinct to conceive and raise a child by herself if necessary is being "selfish" if she uses today's technology? Whereas a single woman is being a "hero" if she volunteers to give birth to the hellspawn of a rapist? Yes, someone actually argued this in a thread just yesterday.
This is why I'm not a Lifer.