“So, no, spending money and chasing around trying to get a human toy to fulfill selfish desires is NOT the ‘life’ position as you call it.”
A human toy? What one thinks about single women using a sperm bank to conceive is one thing, but reducing any woman’s desire for children to a desire for a human toy is a little bizarre. You don’t know her motives. And, any human who desires a child might also be wishing for a “human toy”, including married couples. There is no shortage of fathers or mothers who have their egos far too involved in their children’s lives: toddler beauty pageants, sports at all levels, the opportunities are endless for every sort of parent.;
Not at all. She wanted a very specific physical type of child. She didn't take into account the child's needs, only her own desires.
Sorry, but this child would be nothing but a 'status symbol', a toy, a trophy to her. That doesn't mean she wouldn't feel some love toward it. But it would be a selfish kind of love. Where the interests of the child got in the way of what she wanted, what she wanted would win.