I would suggest to you that the first thing you do is go talk to a lawyer. For questions to be answered there are lots of resources. I’m going to email you privately with some of them. What State do you live in? I don’t believe they can take your house. There’s LOTS of help out there...you just need to do the work.
We will will do our job here and pray, you do your job and take care of your husband, and find out what you need to do to make sure you don’t lose everything.
Do the next indicated step...and you will be taken care of. I promise.
I'm not a lawyer, but I *am* on your side.
Keep us posted.