Thanks. I stand corrected. I tried to find an FR thread. It may have helped if I used “punished with a baby”.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/search?SX=486ce9864ea9ac3dd8accc5c04b40c3bbf7910f2;m=all;o=time;q=deep;s=punished%20with%20a%20baby
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1994780/posts
Lots of thread linked for you already.