You’ve just briefly touched on some of the moral hazards of fatherhood and defined by the State.
This is why it is critical that men follow the rules. And one of the rules is religion. If a man is not religous, then he runs a greater risk of facing a femi-nazi family court.
Plain and simple.
Not. Absolutely not, and not even "religion" -- if it's real -- pretends that life works that way.