>>There is little time for individual love and expression<<
You have never actually dealt with a large family, have you?
Both my father and mother came from large farm families - my father had thirteen siblings, my mother had nine - I myself had six sisters and one brother - a family of seven children.
There was plenty of love but we learned to wait our turn.
I am addressing what I see in the films of the Duggar family - not that large families are wrong.
Isn’t this the family that dad is some political office like a rep or something? I just saw her pic a few months ago after giving birth! They didn’t waste any time!