A wife needs to make a man feel like a hero?
Yes.
And if she doesn’t, then it is okay for him to cheat?
No. This was never stated (that it was “okay”). This is a “reductio ad absurdum” on your part.
Re: This is a “reductio ad absurdum” on your part.
She is saying that women can share the blame for cheating men.....how else am I to read that?