“When the wife does not focus in on the needs and the feelings, sexually, personally, to make him feel like a man, to make him feel like a success, to make him feel like her hero, he’s very susceptible to the charm of some other woman making him feel what he needs,” the popular psychologist and radio personality said.”
What about when the man doesn’t focus in on his wifes feelings, needs, etc.?
why should it have to be the wifes job to make him feel like a success? shouldn’t he be smart enough to figure that out for himself? shouldn’t he actually BE A HERO before a wife treats him like one?
if not, then i think we have a whole shitload of spoiled brats out there posing as husbands.
Catch 22 again!
Love should not be for just the benifit of one OR the other!
It should benifit BOTH!
But from the male point of view...He’s looking, and trying to figure out ways to have his needs met...without losing everything he’s worked his whole life for!
“shouldn’t he actually BE A HERO before a wife treats him like one?”
You really are clueless.
Women expect men to romance them and support them and tell them how beautiful they are and all that, but you think that men are not allowed to have any needs?
Sounds like you’ve been listening to Oprah for too long.