I think Dr. Laura is correct. Yes, many times the guy just can’t keep it in his pants but there are times when a manipulative wife brings the problem on. My wife and I were perfectly fine for the first two years of our marriage. We had a daughter and then my wife announces that “she really doesn’t like sex, but if you cheat on me then I’ll divorce you”. My daughter means the world to me and I would never deprive her of having her dad at home. My in-laws were too powerful (A District court judge and a powerful business executive) so even though my wife was not the better parent I would have lost my daughter. I’m the one that stays up with my daughter all night when she is sick while my wife sleeps. I’m the one that does about 80% of the household duties in addition to having a full-time job that keeps me busy 50 hours a week. It’s now been 15 years since I married her and there is not one ounce of passion in our lives but I WILL NOT give up being a father to my daughter and son (which was born three years after our daughter). My kids are my life. My “wife” quit being a mate 13 years ago.
You ,sir, are a man. Thank you for caring for your daughter and son. May you be blessed with happiness for many years when they have become adults. It will be your turn.