I completely agree with that (stopping the blame on men) but our society is on the blame men (esp the hetero, non minority men) kick. IMO.
I do understand women or men who have issues with sex, whatever those may be, but blaming the other person is silly. I’m surprised by all the lack of sexual satisfaction I’m reading and even discussing in real life. I’m married, been out of the dating world for over 18 years so maybe it’s different now. However, being married, it’s so easy to communicate your needs to your sexual needs, and all the other needs, to one’s spouse.
If the husband isn’t doing enough around the house, just tell him. And vice versa. Granted, I don’t do yard work at all, don’t do anything with the cars, and other house things and that’s the way it works well for us. We share tons of house chores but I don’t expect him to clean the bathroom when I refuse to do yard work.
It was easier when I wasn’t working as much, and especially when I wasn’t working outside the home. I did most (except the yard work, shoveling snow, car stuff cos those were his jobs)of the household chores and I should - he was out working, providing the paycheck needed for this family.
Now that I have to work outside the home more, we split more chores. It’s not that hard.
And the whole sex thing, men are really easy to please in that regard imo. And they want to please also.
Great reply!
“And the whole sex thing, men are really easy to please in that regard imo. And they want to please also.”
We aim to please....and if given a chance we’ll please where we aim!
Seriously... one of the few universal sex turn ons for guys is doing well what make our partner happiest.
You just gotta tell us and then make it worth our while!
Cheers!