He didn’t “make a mistake”! This has been going on for TEN YEARS if you believe all the reports coming out. No, I haven’t gone through my husband committing adultery, but I do know that ten years of it is no mistake. It’s a pattern of behavior that I would not be forgiving and I would certainly NOT be encouraging him to “stay and fight” so that every juicy detail of those ten years can be in the spotlight to do further damage to my children. She’s enabling him and it’s going to hurt those children immensely.