The problem is this becomes our problem too.
My grandchildren have “playmates” that have 2 “mothers”. At this point they do not “get it” but at some point the questions will come.
My daughter can not “punish” the child because of the sin of the parent, yet we do not want to “normalize “ this disjointed family.
How sad this is for the child !
My daughter can not “punish” the child because of the sin of the parent, yet we do not want to “normalize “ this disjointed family.
One does not have to punish the child, but one must protect one’s own from poor influences. I would slowly sever those ties unless you want chldren who see no problem with it.