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To: qam1
Out here in the New Jersey suburbs most of us 40 something men got married in our twenties and have pre-teen children.

We're married to our first wives.  Some of our wives work, some of them don't. We're professionals and contractors with the means to live in pricey New Jersey homes.

We're coaches for our kids teams.  We're volunteers for church, school and the poor.

We get together occasionally at a sports bar and pig out and drink but not in the same quantities as we did 20 years ago.

We have responsibilities and we live up to them.  We don't have a lot of time for moaning.

In short, I would say we're plain ol' men.

It's not a bad life. 

In my office in NYC, I know of some of these Sex and the City type women just a few years younger than me.  Virtually all of them quite attractive. 

They do lament about the lack of good men but then, why did their type give me the brush off 15 years ago.

Perhaps they get noticed more because they have time to write articles like this.

 

41 posted on 02/28/2008 9:54:49 AM PST by Incorrigible (If I lead, follow me; If I pause, push me; If I retreat, kill me.)
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To: Incorrigible
Much as I love to project the image of being a "player" (I know), I am closer to the "plain old men" that you describe. The Sluts in the City Types think that they can land a combination of James Bond, Michael Milliken (pre indictment), and John Holmes.

Unfortunatly, I am not attracted to "plain old women" (motherly domestic types) either, so I'm one to talk...

91 posted on 02/28/2008 11:55:11 AM PST by Clemenza (I live in New Jersey for the Same Reason People Slow Down to Look at Car Wrecks)
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To: Incorrigible

They do lament about the lack of good men but then, why did their type give me the brush off 15 years ago.

Ding! Ding! Ding!


97 posted on 02/28/2008 12:08:36 PM PST by ffusco (Maecilius Fuscus,Governor of Longovicium , Manchester, England. 238-244 AD)
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