“Actually you can blame the Boomer generation for how they raised their kids. (If you raised your kid to be responsible, respectful and motivated this doesn’t apply to you)”
I agree. The Boomer generation, of which I am in the middle, has not done a good job compared to their parents. Peter-Pan narcissism is rampant, secondary to the self-esteem school of thought that arose subsequent to the 1960s and ‘70s.
I have raised my young women well and they tell me that there are no young men available who have any plans for a future with a woman that lasts beyond the next morning. They are both beautiful and waiting for a beloved.