Your spouse must be a real happy camper. We just celebrated our 29th anniversary and physical intimacy is a more important part of our relationship than ever.
If, in your view, it's about getting one's rocks off you're totally missing the point.
In John 17, when Jesus prays this is eternal life: that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent. He's using the same root word that's used in Genesis where it says Adam knew Eve, and she bore him a son.
Around our house we've spent the past 29 years as two becoming one ... we're much closer to that now than we were when we started. Sex isn't the only part of that, but it's one of the most important parts.
uHHH....It is not about getting ones rocks off. Me and the wife are enjoying a lot better sex life now than in our earlier years. When we were younger we were not getting along too well and not having sex as often. Now that we have repaired our EMOTITIONAL side we have been having lots and lots of sex and could NOT BE HAPPIER. (not yelling emphasizing.
The emotional and physical go hand in hand regardless of what anyone says.
Besides it is fun. You should try it.
Well said. Sex is about intimacy and without intimacy a marriage will fail.