[TalonDJ]

They have no ability to get beyond themselves and their little lives and actually get along with someone who’s not exactly like them.

Maybe you need to start by looking for women that ARE 'like you' before worrying about all that. When I found someone that matched me for politics (full spectrum), religion, family background, intelligence, child rearing philosophy, sense of humor, interests, and entertain activities, it was not at all surprising that we thought almost alike on everything else and had personalities that fit like a glove.

[Free Vulcan]

I don’t want someone exactly like me, I like women that complement me on some things. You’re never going to be exactly alike on everything. As long as it’s the important things that you are alike on, that’s all that matters.

That’s the problem with alot of women, they’ve gotten so nitpicky they can’t see the forest for the trees. They have no idea what’s important and what’s not. It’s basically their way or the highway - or they play the victim and make you out to be the ogre before they take everything they can from you and move on.