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To: nickcarraway

It’s based on various factors. People do grow apart. Especially if they marry young and for sometimes the wrong reasons. Some men just make the sexual experience about themselves, even if they are their wives want different things. Sex isn’t all about the physical act itself. Courting should go on even after marriage. A combination of these factors, basic stress, and so on can lead to lack of desire. I’m not an expert obviously and could be way off.


47 posted on 01/25/2008 10:06:29 AM PST by HungarianGypsy
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To: HungarianGypsy

Thank you - no one seems ready to blame the guy in any way. It’s possible, probably likely, he’s a big cause of all this, and it may just be the woman is misdirecting her rationale for growing apart (domestic life).


54 posted on 01/25/2008 10:09:17 AM PST by Hegewisch Dupa
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To: HungarianGypsy

Erm,
No, you’re extremely on target. Also, if there are issues in the marriage...verbal abuse, resentment, financial problems, lack of trust, fear etc....the bed is the first place to feel it.


66 posted on 01/25/2008 10:15:31 AM PST by najida (I am so grateful that stupid isn't contagious.)
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To: HungarianGypsy
Some men just make the sexual experience about themselves

You mean it's not?

91 posted on 01/25/2008 10:26:44 AM PST by Jeff Chandler (It takes a father to raise a child.)
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To: HungarianGypsy

Healthy Sex within Marriage is a but a symptom of other issues....poor guy just got emasculated by his wife.


426 posted on 01/25/2008 6:28:45 PM PST by Halgr (Once a Marine, always a Marine - Semper Fi)
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