A close relative (conservative) and I had a similar discussion before the last election. She was so angry at Republicans, and refused to vote...said she may do so again in the presidential election.
I understand the displeasure, but I think Reid and Pelosi, et al, have more than proven my point to her that things indeed can be worse when Dems have free reign. I think “we ain’t seen nuthin’” if Leftist Dems control the executive, legislative, and the judicial branch through their appointments. They have no conservatives in their party to hold them in check, and they would rather war with their political enemies than fight the enemies of this country, so they will pay little or no heed to our wishes.
It is obvious that my relative has not changed her mind about her stance in the last election, as she may chose to do the same again this time around. She is an intelligent, and politically aware, woman. I disagree with her, but I respect her right to make her own decision just as I do yours and others.
I find it interesting what some people are willing to tolerate at various times in history while others are not. Years later perspectives change and another line is drawn in the sand, perhaps by you or somebody with your perspective, and the cycle continues.
Often, when I hear the term 20/20 hindsight it gives me pause for thought.
BTW, please tell your close relative to vote even if she has to write in her candidate.