not necessarily a bad thing for men who don't want a wife and children to not marry...too many men get married because its the expected thing and they become lousy husbands and lousy fathers.....
don't marry and have children unless you are committed to the values of marriage and children....
that means no more porn, no more late night carousing...not more spending on big boy toys when the rent is due...
same rules for women...
>>>that means no more porn, no more late night carousing...not more spending on big boy toys when the rent is due...<<<
Hey, if you got those problems, you need to leave your man and quit trying to change him into someone he is not.
That mentality is what I am talking about. Why do you say only men like porn? Even if the man wants to look at it but his loving wife now makes it impossible. That sounds like a real attractive deal. I’ll bet he can’t wait to get home to his loving wife. Do you know where he would rather be?
Only men stay out late because they are irresponsible idiots. Only men buy “whatever kinda toys” because only men don’t care about the rent.
Sounds like that “man” wasn’t ready to get married and wasn’t ready to take on the responsibility that MEN should have and you need to find a MAN instead of trying to change another.
Has it ever accured to you that some men pay the rent? Some men actually be men and take control of the responsibilities and handle the money and are more responsible than the women. OHHHH no. Men are idiots and women must set us straight and narrow because we are too big of idiots to be MEN, responsible for families and households.
You don’t tell a man to do that stuff. If a man does that stuff, then YOU leave. Don’t try to tell the man he can’t do it.