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Orono (Maine) man upset about boy using girls' restroom
Bangor Daily News ^ | ednesday, December 19, 2007 | Aimee Dolloff

Posted on 12/19/2007 6:33:24 AM PST by wbill

ORONO - The fight isn’t over for an Orono man who is upset about the actions of a student in his grandson’s class.

Paul Melanson addressed the school committee Tuesday regarding his frustration over a male student in his grandson’s fifth-grade class at Asa Adams Elementary School who was being allowed to use the girls restroom because he allegedly wants to change genders.

Melanson is the guardian for his grandson and is upset over the situation, but said at least the committee recognized Tuesday that the situation had occurred rather than denying it as school officials previously had done.

"At this kid’s request, he’s being treated like a little girl," Melanson said when addressing the committee.

Committee Chairman Robert Swindlehurst limited Melanson’s comments to about three minutes in order to protect the identity of the student.

During his presentation to the panel, Melanson said that in October, he called Superintendent Kelly Clenchy, concerned with what his grandson had told him about the other student. Clenchy denied the situation was happening, Melanson said.

Melanson then gave his grandson permission to follow the boy into the girls restroom and use the facilities. He did so on Oct. 4 and was taken to the principal’s office.

Melanson was called and told that if his grandson continued with his behavior, "he would be having a bad year," Melanson said.

Orono police later visited the grandfather’s house and Melanson said they told him not to use his grandson as a pawn in his fight.

"The Orono School Department is complying with all laws," Swindlehurst said. He added that "the situation is not occurring at this time."

But when Melanson asked which restroom the student now was using, Swindlehurst said he wouldn’t discuss the matter.

The individual is using the appropriate bathroom," Swindlehurst said. He then thanked Melanson for his comments.

"My attorney will follow up," Melanson said before leaving the podium.

After the meeting, Melanson said his grandson told him the student now is using a restroom designated for teachers. Melanson said his next step would be to give his grandson permission to use that restroom, even if it means the child might be expelled.

He said that the same anti-discrimination laws that are likely to be used to justify the other boy’s use of certain restrooms also could be used to justify his grandson’s use of the same restroom.

"I’m going to keep fighting it," Melanson said. "It’s going to continue. I want the law straightened out."

Melanson is supported in his fight by the Maine Christian Civic League, which has published two stories on the issue on its Web site, www.cclmaine.org, and by the league’s attorney, Steve Whiting of Portland.

League Executive Director Michael Heath was unable to attend the meeting, but another representative from the organization brought to the meeting Heath’s written comments supporting Melanson.

"Support for the privacy of the student and family is leading public officials, including the police, to make some profound errors," Heath said in the letter. "The reign of tyrannical political correctness is making us mad."


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Good for this guy, in standing up to more Gov't school idiocy.

As to the overall situation, it's hard to know where to *start* to comment.

1 posted on 12/19/2007 6:33:26 AM PST by wbill
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because he allegedly wants to change genders.


Who are the people encouraging this kid?


2 posted on 12/19/2007 6:35:14 AM PST by PeterPrinciple ( Seeking the truth here folks.)
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Why on earth is this school system permitting a 5th GRADER to dictate to them what his sexuality will be?


3 posted on 12/19/2007 6:36:29 AM PST by VeniVidiVici (No buy China!!)
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Melanson was called and told that if his grandson continued with his behavior, "he would be having a bad year," Melanson said

That was the comment that stood out for me. Sounds like Mafia goons are running the administration. "Oh, you can say what you like, it just sure would be a shame if you got your leg broke..."

4 posted on 12/19/2007 6:37:34 AM PST by wbill
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The fifth grade boy needs counseling. Anyone who helps him persist in the mental illness that surgical castration is a good move for his future happiness should be arrested for child abuse.

They are leading him down a very dark path and ruining his chance for anything like a normal life.

5 posted on 12/19/2007 6:38:30 AM PST by ClearCase_guy (The broken wall, the burning roof and tower. And Agamemnon dead.)
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"he would be having a bad year," Melanson said

I'd kindly remind anyone that said that to me that if another threat like that is forthcoming, his family is going to be having a bad year.

6 posted on 12/19/2007 6:41:42 AM PST by Malsua
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Orono police later visited the grandfather’s house and Melanson said they told him not to use his grandson as a pawn in his fight.

I agree with the point, if not with using the police to present it.

Why aren't the parents of girls up in arms?

7 posted on 12/19/2007 6:41:52 AM PST by Tax-chick ("The keys to life are running and reading." ~ Will Smith)
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How old is 5th grade?
This twerp needs some serious guidance and obviously the school hasn't provided it and will not.PC gone wild...
8 posted on 12/19/2007 6:42:05 AM PST by CGASMIA68
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5th grade

scotty, for the love of God, beam me up.

9 posted on 12/19/2007 6:43:08 AM PST by the invisib1e hand (chaos is an illusion.)
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To: the invisib1e hand

There’s no intelligent life on this planet.


10 posted on 12/19/2007 6:44:17 AM PST by Tax-chick ("The keys to life are running and reading." ~ Will Smith)
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5th graders are 10 or 11 years old.


11 posted on 12/19/2007 6:44:54 AM PST by Tax-chick ("The keys to life are running and reading." ~ Will Smith)
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About 10 years old.


12 posted on 12/19/2007 6:45:44 AM PST by Vor Lady (I carry a gun because I can't carry a cop. For John McDonald, RIP 12/5/07)
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some one needs to investigate this kids Hard-Drive as he is getting these un-healty notions some where...


13 posted on 12/19/2007 6:45:51 AM PST by vavavah
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are ones nuts even fully developed at that age,I know his brain is not?


14 posted on 12/19/2007 6:47:16 AM PST by vavavah
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Didn't this happen on South Park?

Coulda' sworn.

15 posted on 12/19/2007 6:50:16 AM PST by muawiyah
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Girls are different silly.


16 posted on 12/19/2007 6:52:14 AM PST by muawiyah
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I love how the liberals in charge of reporting this story completely misrepresent the Grandfather in their caption under his picture:

“Paul Melanson, Orono resident and grandfather of fifth grade middle school student who is upset about a transgender student in his grandson’s class.”

1 - The kid is not “transgender”. He’s confused, and most likely being subjected to some sort of abuse in order to make him think that he is a girl. The article refers to him as “alleged”, but the caption doesn’t.

2 - He’s not upset about the student, he’s upset that the student is being allowed to use the girl’s bathroom. He’s upset that the school system is encouraging perversion, and allowing a boy to behave as if he’s a girl. And he’s upset about the double-standard being applied, where “anti-discrimination” policies are being unevenly used.

Love how they twist it (as well as use a terrible picture of the grandfather) to apparently suit their own “He’s a homophobe!” agenda.


17 posted on 12/19/2007 6:52:15 AM PST by ItsOurTimeNow (Classic Blunder #1 - "Never get involved in a land war in Asia.")
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To: muawiyah

Heavens to mergatroid......the possible link!


18 posted on 12/19/2007 6:53:22 AM PST by CGASMIA68
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Just a small point on this Kelly Clenchy, it sounds like she's been cruising and has her target in sight. The little boy is already going to the staff restroom.

Lord only knows what might happen in there.

19 posted on 12/19/2007 6:54:44 AM PST by muawiyah
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This state is a lost cause. To paraphrase bill clinton we had the worst economy in 50 years and our left wing governor won by ten points last time, 60% of the vote went to left wing candidates. We’ve got two rino senators that I think will switch parties or become independents soon. What a disaster this state is from it’s economy and social valves.
20 posted on 12/19/2007 6:56:36 AM PST by mainerforglobalwarming
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