Lol! I have to admit, I was never really a fan of Fogelberg's music due to the maudlin nature of many of his hits. But he did have one uptempo tune, Love Gone By, that was a great tune. You probably wouldn't know it was him if you heard it. But a talented guy, to be sure, may he RIP.
First, keep your foul language to yourself.
Second, males who supposedly become wimps through listening to someone's music were wimps to begin with.