I didn't write that post for you. LOL I wrote it cuz the whinging was irritating.
No doubt.
You are exceedingly believable, routinely.
However, I have no trouble construing it as a kindness, as well.
I have to cherish each one of those hereon . . . however obliquely. The naysayers tend to be louder and more frequent than the ‘silent __________ty”
Hope you won’t mind toooooo much.