While I sympathize for the plight you have found yourself in and have no use for such women that have done to you what you describe, I can not let this particular statement stand without comment.
I am thankful there were no children involved in my first marriage, yet the ex tried everything in his arsenal to make me pay when I said no more and walked on him. I'm sorry, but men can be just as vindictive as women. Not only did he seek spousal support from me, he sought over $1,000 in legal expenses. I chose the no fault option as much to save him community humiliation as to save myself from it
Nearly 20 years later, with a strong marriage and a 9 year old child I can look back on it as comedy/tragedy, but at 27 it was far from comedic to me at the time. It was a devestating and demoralizing experience.
Of course, men can be just as bad. I guess the difference is that I’ve never been married to one. The central idea of the original post seemed to be that “no-fault” is not a problem in a case like yours was with no kids involved. I’m happy for you that your life has so greatly improved.