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Parents, school resolve hugging dispute
Yahoo News ^ | 11/13/07 | AP via Yahoo

Posted on 11/13/2007 2:08:00 PM PST by MotleyGirl70

MASCOUTAH, Ill. - Maybe they hugged it out: school officials resolved their dispute with the parents of a 13-year-old girl given detention for hugging her friends.

Melissa and Dean Coulter met with officials of the Mascoutah School District 19 to discuss the two detentions given their daughter, Megan, for hugging friends goodbye for the weekend. School officials said the eighth grader violated a policy banning public displays of affection.

"Our whole purpose of the meeting was to get them to talk to us and discuss what changes needed to be made and if (the policy) could be improved," Dean Coulter said. "We scheduled it because we figured it was the right thing to do."

Her parents told her to serve the detentions to avoid getting into more trouble, and had planned to take the issue before the Board of Education at its meeting Thursday.

Superintendent Sam McGowen said in a statement Monday that the Coulters had withdrawn their request to speak at the meeting, and decided instead to meet with administrators.

"I'm grateful they sought this meeting and we could have a level of discussion that helps us both understand each other's concerns more clearly," McGowen stated.

He said he and Assistant Superintendent Terry Gibbons met with the Coulters on Friday and discussed the policy that led to the detentions.

"We told them that we reviewed it on an annual basis and that's where we left it," he said.

Coulter said McGowen was very receptive during the meeting, and that the family is satisfied with the district's promise to at least look into revising the policy.

"I just feel like we've accomplished what we wanted to accomplish, and that was for them to talk to us," he said.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; US: Illinois
KEYWORDS: hugging; hugginginschools

1 posted on 11/13/2007 2:08:01 PM PST by MotleyGirl70
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To: MotleyGirl70

How about them Packers?


2 posted on 11/13/2007 2:09:04 PM PST by pissant (Duncan Hunter: Warrior, Statesman, Conservative)
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To: MotleyGirl70

At least it didn’t end up in a lawsuit.


3 posted on 11/13/2007 2:10:21 PM PST by cdbull23 ("If it's brown, drink it down. If it's black, send it back." - Homer on what's good to drink.)
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To: MotleyGirl70

http://www.independent.ie/health/alternative-health/when-a-motherly-hug—is-the-best-medicine-1217149.html

The hugging saint.

With four hugs a day prescribed for survival, eight a day for emotional strength and 12 for growth, what would scientific research make of Amma?

Known fondly as The Hugging Saint, she is said to have hugged more than 26 million people from all races, religions and walks of life all over the planet. This week she’s in Ireland for a two-day hugathon.


4 posted on 11/13/2007 2:13:35 PM PST by rocksblues (Just enforce the law!)
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To: MotleyGirl70
Did everybody get a hug at the end of the meeting???
5 posted on 11/13/2007 2:14:37 PM PST by colorado tanker (I'm unmoderated - just ask Bill O'Reilly)
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To: cdbull23
I'm sure the school would much rather she hug a tree instead.
6 posted on 11/13/2007 2:18:30 PM PST by MotleyGirl70 (We don’t have borders, we have swiss cheese lines.~~~Go Packers!~~~)
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To: rocksblues

“Oh, well, sweetie,” Obama said, beckoning the woman forward, “come over here and give me a hug. You’re just getting all choked up.”


7 posted on 11/13/2007 2:20:32 PM PST by donna (Obama is a Moslem.)
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To: MotleyGirl70
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No, no now. None of that.
8 posted on 11/13/2007 2:20:38 PM PST by Old Seadog (Inside every old person is a young person saying "WTF happened?".)
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To: MotleyGirl70

Not agreeing with the school on this but my high school also had rules about P.D.A. and that was 1959-1963


9 posted on 11/13/2007 2:20:51 PM PST by Graybeard58 ( Remember and pray for SSgt. Matt Maupin - MIA/POW- Iraq since 04/09/04)
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To: pissant
Looking pretty good! :)

Huge game for us this week against the Cowboys.

10 posted on 11/13/2007 2:20:56 PM PST by MotleyGirl70 (We don’t have borders, we have swiss cheese lines.~~~Go Packers!~~~)
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To: MotleyGirl70

Yes, but the Seahawks are making a comeback! LOL


11 posted on 11/13/2007 2:25:50 PM PST by pissant (Duncan Hunter: Warrior, Statesman, Conservative)
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To: donna
Just goes to show if you are a Liberal hugging is OK!

But in order to be a Liberal in a Liberals mind you must be a Democrat or a minority.

12 posted on 11/13/2007 2:26:41 PM PST by rocksblues (Just enforce the law!)
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To: Graybeard58

Between girls?

I went to a Christian high school in the 80s and hugging was fine. So was handholding.

Kissing was verboten.


13 posted on 11/13/2007 2:28:12 PM PST by Politicalmom (Of the potential GOP front runners, FT has one of the better records on immigration.- NumbersUSA)
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To: Graybeard58
I don't recall my h.s. having written rules like that and that was in the late 80s. Girls held their boyfriend's hand, hugged them hello or gave them a peck on the cheek. Even girls hugged other girls. It was no big deal.

There was no groping or making out in the middle of the hallways. That was a given.

14 posted on 11/13/2007 2:31:30 PM PST by MotleyGirl70 (We don’t have borders, we have swiss cheese lines.~~~Go Packers!~~~)
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To: MotleyGirl70
Gotta crack down on those huggers, while big kids beating up little kids is just a daily norm, in a middle school. In fact if the same little kid is beat up by several different bullies, on different days, he is likely to get in trouble for having a tendency to get into "fights".

Aren't government schools just wonderful?

15 posted on 11/13/2007 2:33:06 PM PST by 3niner (War is one game where the home team always loses.)
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To: 3niner
Gotta crack down on those huggers, while big kids beating up little kids is just a daily norm, in a middle school.

And the girls are just as bad (if not worse) than the boys.

16 posted on 11/13/2007 2:38:31 PM PST by MotleyGirl70 (We don’t have borders, we have swiss cheese lines.~~~Go Packers!~~~)
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To: MotleyGirl70; Politicalmom

You are both right. I’m going back more than 40 years and memory fades. It was kissing that was forbidden, not hugs, however I don’t remember a lot of hugging going on either.


17 posted on 11/13/2007 2:53:26 PM PST by Graybeard58 ( Remember and pray for SSgt. Matt Maupin - MIA/POW- Iraq since 04/09/04)
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To: Old Seadog

Aww... that’s so incredibly adorable! I think I’m having a cuteness overload or something =)


18 posted on 11/13/2007 3:04:42 PM PST by Hyzenthlay (Halo 3 is making me realise that Microsoft is not entirely evil.)
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To: MotleyGirl70

What will the school do when the sport teams hug each other after a great play is made during a game? After all, they are doing exactly what this girl did. Just wondering if there is a double standard?


19 posted on 11/13/2007 3:37:13 PM PST by rawhide
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