She even stocked up on oats so she could make a similar porridge to one Tanzanian children are given called uji, which is made from maize-meal.
In other words, she did everything she could to remind the girl that she isn't British; and will never be British. And since a British woman would have only British daughters, she was also continually reminded that she's not a real daughter tio the wioman. No wonder they didn't get along.
I never saw it that way but you’re spot on. Maybe occasionally engaging the girl iin her native culture would be a good thing but day to day she should be just like any other english kid.
Agreed, now imagine she provided the girl with a blank palette of a room and took the child shopping for what SHE wanted to decorate with. Hmmm...