Do you honestly see any judgement expressed in that post at all?
If anything, I suggested it would be merciful for parents to prevent kids having access to matches.
LOL, this topic has certain pushed the buttons of a lot of people.
Since you asked, yes, I did.
Despite your statements of idealism, you weren't/aren't a perfect parent. Your own story isn't over yet. You have no idea what your own child may or may not due in the future.
Another thing I know is that children are children, that a ten year old is still very much a child, and that no matter how wonderful his/her parents, *every* child will do something sometime that a parent trained them not to do.
If you can prove somehow that these parents knowingly allowed their child to play with matches, then that's a whole different ballgame.
Otherwise your statements are based on a whole lot of assumptions.
"With the merciful [God] wilt shew [Himself] merciful." (Psalm 18:25)