I think you’ve got something. I do think that despite lesbian activists, the direction this is going is anti-woman. There is a snide dismissal of women among a lot of homosexual display. Gay fashion designers delight in making women look absurd. Theater departments use women as objects of derision if at all. Women-hating is becoming less subtle in gay circles.
Someone a few years ago said that as homosexuality spreads, women lose respect within society. I forgot who it was who said that, but they made some good points.
A snide dismissal is putting it mildly. In the McGreevy and Robinson cases it was necessary to make an absolute humiliation of the wife.