I’d suggest that my original assertion was correct.
Men kill their wives more frequently than the opposite but mostly the differance shows up in spousal abuse. I’d go along with the concept that woman abuse...ie hit and fight physically with their husbands waaaaay more often than is reported.
But when it comes to man versus woman...come on....the man’s going to win most times.
But as to men arranging the murder of their spouse, either via pre-plan or spontaneous, I’d suggest it’s very close to equal.
Many women plotting to kill their husbands do arrange for another party far more frequently than men do.
Still....nah...even your quotes are vague. No way do more women kill their husbands than husbands kill their wives.
But again....spousal murder is way closer in terms of each sex as culprit than most people believe.