People seem to be mixing up lots of feelings about bodily functions here. Dirty bathrooms comes up a lot - without any suggestion that the particular bathroom was dirty at all. It seems that the venue is a trigger for radical emotional reactions to the general public.
If we commonly had unisex bathrooms, would any exchange between a female and a male visitor be legal? Likely why we most commonly have separate facilities.
Funny thing is, homos serving in the military seems quite acceptable to the general public - never mind the common showers and bathrooms hetero GI’s have to share with these perverts. I guess those in the military must grin and bear the disorderly conduct without complaint.
-—It seems that the venue is a trigger for radical emotional reactions to the general public.-—
It’s not because it’s dirty, necessarily; it’s because it’s a place where we are vulnerable. It’s a place where we strangers come and go, and it’s a place where we regularly pull our pants down. I feel like I’m explaining the facts of life to little kids here.
15 years ago pee wee herman was the subject of derision for his poor choices. now we have slunk down to the point of rationalizing US senators of the republican party cruising for gay sex. This is like the last days of Rome. Gawd. yikes. trying to think of a spell to cast to deflect this lowering of standards of acceptable public behavior. Apple Pie! Grandma and Sunday School! it’s not working.