I happen to believe that gays are born that way. Having said that, there is a difference between sexuality and lifestyle. I have known gay couples who have been together for decades, faithful to each other; homebodies who lived their lives quietly without scandal. Then there is the gay lifestyle of cruising bars and restrooms for anonymous or public sex, often with as many parners in one night as the ecstacy or viagra will allow. In my opinion, this is the deviant behavior. It is compulsive. It is not normal. Anonymous sex, public sex, sex with 500 or 1000 partners a year is deviant - whether you’re gay or straight. Only if you’re gay and someone says your behavior is deviant, ooooh you are a gay basher.
Sorry, but I find Craig’s behavior - more than his sexual orientation - deviant and disgusting. I mean, gee, just think of the germs in a public bathroom and that’s where he wanted to have sex? Yuck, eeeww, puke.
Most gays are molested as children into the life style.
Your believing it doesn't make it a statistical majority of gays; my understanding of gays based on having worked in the arts side-by-side with hundreds of gay men and women (and having done my graduate thesis in the legal and social aspects of sexual relationships) is that the great majority of the ones I observed had either been raped or severely traumatized in childhood. I also knew several long-term gay couples, in once case together nearly 40 years, but in virtually every case, dalliances outside the relationship were tolerated or accepted. This was in the pre- through early-AIDS days. Most of the gay men I knew are long dead as a result of their promiscuity. Responsible research bears out that faithful, exclusive sexual relationships between gay men are in the distinct minority of such relationships.