Most gays are molested as children into the life style.
According to one compelling theory I have read, all embryos start out female - until a gene on the Y chromosome switches on and bathes the cells in testosterone. From that moment on, the embryo’s development becomes male. If the gene switches on even a day late, the brain becomes hardwired to homosexuality.
I know this theory does not explain lesbians (some percentage of whom choose to be with other women), but I do think it’s a plausible explanation of homosexuality.
And it is possible that a homosexual boy gives off telltale signs recognizable to another homosexual, so when he is seduced by an adult male it’s child sexual abuse, to be sure, but not “grooming” since the boy is already gay even if he is too young to clearly understand why he is “different” from other boys.
Having said all that, I reiterate that there is a difference between lifestyle and sexual orientation. And no matter what gays say certain behaviors many of them engage in are deviant, abnormal and immoral. If that’s gay-bashing I’ll live with it. I am required by law not to discriminate against anyone, but that doesn’t mean I have to stand up on my hind legs an applaud everything everyone does. There are limits to my tolerance.