[mollynme]

but the cruelty of how she treated her son's survivor's -even in death-is shameful.

Possibly. But she didn't treat them all that way. Do you know the whole story? I don't. I'm not defending her, just saying that the level of vitriol could be toned down a little.

[SunnyUsa]

Anyone defending her should do a 'google' search on her and they can fill in the blanks of what they know about this woman.

Most reputations are well earned.