Only 20% of peanut allergic kids “grow out of it”. I am not a militant in this cause, believe me. We do everything we can to protect our own kid, and, in fact, we rarely make the allergy an issue in public. What disturbs me, however, is the fact that people simply refuse to understand that this is a deadly condition, and simple precautions (like peanut rules at schools) can allow our kid to enjoy a somewhat normal childhood. Yet people get all bent out of shape about the rules.
I’m not asking anyone to “do without”. Just be considerate in common sense ways.
Except that "peanut rules at schools" thing. You are a militant on this subject. Here and on other threads, you are like a dog with a bone on this subject.
It is wrong for you to think that other people need to modify their thoughts or behaviors in any way so that your family can live the life that they want.