[NeoCaveman]

My point I was trying to make got lost so I’ll try again.

If she wasn’t beore, then did he turn her into a vindictive loathesome woman?

[HitmanLV]

Then I think your point isn;t very meaningful, since the behavior of one spouse isn’t the only cause of another spouse growing loathsome. In fact, I don’t even think it’s the main cause. It may not even be a top cause,.