As soon as I got divorced I felt I was being treated as a criminal complete with probation.
With everything I do and every move I make, I have to register with the State. My entire financial life is in the hands of the State.
The way it works is, they take as much from my paycheck as they want to pay themselves and my wife and I get to keep whatever residual is left over.
My wife and daughters best interest is constantly before the court whereas my interests and well being is literally irrelevant. And could not mean this in a stronger sense.
I am the villain, the criminal, the guilty party; they are the victims. I must be made to pay no matter what.
far as I’m concerned, all it takes is some obscure allegation from the woman and the man is immediately, completely and totally guilty of that allegation (in this case a child which isn’t his) and must prove innocence. On top of that, he must be made to pay the ex-wife support/alimony, with no hope of recovering his money when and if the obscure allegations are proven false. On top of that, he’s out whatever legal fees he had to pay to get out of the mess, while ex-wifey walks away scott free, loading her guns for the next round..
the system is loaded against the male..
I feel for you. Fortunately, I have not gone through a divorce. More my wife’s doing than mine. It helps to get the right woman.