It is sad but pray4liberty does not realize he is the exact type who turns off so many non-christians to Christ.
That is something of the point of Erwin McManus’ book “The Barbarian Way”. There are MANY lost who find Jesus intriguing, even attractive, but they cannot figure out how it is that he and so many church people, who claim to follow him, seem like they’re from totally different planets.
If you’ve not read it, I recommend it.