"relax and be friendlier toward others"
Ironic advice, coming from a person with your tagline.
I am hoping this Sunday finds you in a more jolly and less sensitive mode. Realizing you are new, a visitor as such, and not necessarily familiar with the depth of our topic coverage, I can see you now taking offense with T’wit’s tag line including visitors. First it was the beer and now this.
I hope you take a breath and relax a little. We deal with a very heavy and disturbing topic and take to a little banter now and then as relief from the weight of the topic.
Visitors to which we refer are the actual trolls, lefties, and assorted antagonists who come here with the express purpose of detracting, derailing, and disrupting our threads. They do so because of the topic and they are on the other side. I expect this does not apply to you, so urge you not to think yourself one of them.
Who lost a parrot?
I use many taglines. Perhaps this one is more to your liking.