There is nothing more frustrating for a female than to be seen as a piece of meat, a sexual conquest. A guy can let a lady know he thinks she is pretty by saying it with words, decent ones, not my using his hands or eyes to check it out. We have brains, emotions, etc and that doesn’t seem to be taken into account by a majority of the male population. I would much rather have a decent, intelligent conversation than to be groped. We want and deserve to be treated with respect... It would be an honor to date and marry someone who valued their sexuality so much that they were a virgin, someone who respected the sexuality of the lady so much that they would wait until marriage. I am ALL FOR going back to the days of courting!
In my experience what you say is only true to a certain extent. Pretty much every guy I know who has been called a nice guy has been friended pretty brutally by a girl he really liked. Meanwhile those same girls will date guys who are well known for not treating girls very nicely, or that they feel is more of a challenge to get to treat them nicely.
You know, (I for one); (AND BTW: I read your comments before seeing it was YOU Mtn Flower! ;)) I would rather have a connection with a girl, that leads to true love (and possibly marriage; in the Biblical context “love your wife as Christ does the church”)! I have not “done it yet”(trying to put this as “uncrudely” as possible) but I have seen enough examples of, in the world, that I don’t wanna do it their way!
Take Care,
Jeremy. ;)
ME, TOO. Especially now that I have three beautiful (really beautiful—not just grandma’s bias) granddaughters (two of whom are teens). I’m a ‘grandma gap-stander’ when it comes to my grandchildren and I stand in the gap for all of them.
You don't "deserve" it unless you earn it. That's the problems with most women today, they think they "deserve" everything.