I met my wife while working for what used to be called ‘The Welfare Department’ back in the early 1980’s, but we didn’t ‘work together’. She was in IS, I was in Security.
big difference between dating a co-worker you don’t supervise, or aren’t in a position to eval or promote, and this.
I’m amazed at how many don’t ‘get it’ like you and I.
I’ve seen it turn out bad MANY times and good only ONCE.
Not a good track record for dating fellow employees.
I didn’t know Wolf’s GF worked there already. Like a poster said, reading the facts, it does look like a setup.
Nevertheless, he should have known he was a lightning rod and taken better precautions although it sounds like he did try.