I understand. It is all about appearing to be perfect, like your Mormon family members. You do understand JAKraig that none of us is perfect, not me, not you, and not Mormons.
I too have Mormon family members. It is hilarious that you want to paint me a bigot when my mother, brother, in-laws and husband are all believing Mormons and I have good relationships with all. They understand that I can question Mormonism, and indeed can come to the conclusion it is false without being a bigot.