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To: shrinkermd
"Count me out. There's something fraudulent about this eagerness to latch onto the grief of others and embrace the idea that we, too, have been victimized. This trivializes the pain felt by those who have actually lost something and pathologizes normal reactions to tragedy. Empathy is good, but feeling shocked and saddened by the shootings doesn't make us traumatized or special — these feelings make us normal."

Absolutely, worth repeating.

And quite frankly, all these "vigils" (not just for VT) are worthless. Libs are great at them... crawl out, show "support", crawl back.

jw

19 posted on 04/20/2007 5:50:43 AM PDT by JWinNC (www.anailinhisplace.net)
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To: JWinNC

all these “vigils” (not just for VT) are worthless. Libs are great at them... crawl out, show “support”, crawl back.
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Don’t more than a handful of freepers maintain an ongoing vigil of support for the troops, in Olney MD. The News/Activism sidebar shows a handful of them. I don’t recall you posting your thoughts on any of those threads.

I think it would be better if we simply recognized that there is a difference between showing support and “becoming one with the victims”.

Just a thought.


37 posted on 04/20/2007 6:37:19 AM PDT by dmz
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To: JWinNC
all these "vigils" (not just for VT) are worthless

Not for those involved. I never like to see schools hire all these psychologists and "grief councilors" to come in and bug people at these times. But I think that these "worthless vigils" as you call them give these kids something to keep them busy while they are still in shock. I think they're a great deal more healthy than visiting the hired grief people. I've always thought that during these awful periods, talking to beloved friends and family does a lot more than unknown, temporary and paid "professionals." And vigils keeps them busy, planning and interacting with others which in the long run is a much better way to deal with grief.

47 posted on 04/20/2007 7:38:57 AM PDT by twigs
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To: JWinNC

Read the entire article and you see how vile it really is.


54 posted on 04/20/2007 8:24:33 AM PDT by kabar
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To: JWinNC

“And quite frankly, all these “vigils” (not just for VT) are worthless. Libs are great at them... crawl out, show “support”, crawl back.”

Hmmm, I didn’t personally know anybody who died on 9/11. I guess I was wrong to go to vigils for that?


59 posted on 04/20/2007 8:46:53 AM PDT by gracesdad
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