Not for those involved. I never like to see schools hire all these psychologists and "grief councilors" to come in and bug people at these times. But I think that these "worthless vigils" as you call them give these kids something to keep them busy while they are still in shock. I think they're a great deal more healthy than visiting the hired grief people. I've always thought that during these awful periods, talking to beloved friends and family does a lot more than unknown, temporary and paid "professionals." And vigils keeps them busy, planning and interacting with others which in the long run is a much better way to deal with grief.
Okay, fair enough, but if they need to be busy and interacting with others and with friends and family I still don’t think these “vigils” are the answer. -jw