I don’t think it’s either. In my own experience asian males can get very violent over there girlfriends. I had a friend in Kansas who was shot and his girlfriend killed because she was cheating on him with my friend. I was told along time ago don’t get between an Asian and his money or his girlfriend.
“Asian” covers a lot of ground—many Middle-Easterners are also called “Asians.”
phew, at least you didnt say “or a parking space”