I would never hold the McGreevey "family" as one to follow. However, it seems that Rudy and Judy are happy - I have the impression she is willing to be second banana while Donna Hanover like the publicity, the bit parts on Law and Order, the limo, the stationery, all the status.
You might be right. But my question is whether you or I know any of these people well enough to elevate that "impression" above the level of mere speculation.