[Mr.Unique]

As I said, I am not going to risk getting shot or stabbed over a lover's spat.

A lover's spat? Did I miss something in the story?

[DCPatriot]

Somebody earlier in the thread said that the bartender and woman 'knew each other'.

I replied before I personally saw the video. If I had seen it prior, I wouldn't have taken my position...obviously.

It looked like a diner to me more than a bar...so a frying pan swung at his head ala Barry Bonds would have done the trick.