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Okay... you know what? It's time I came to terms with the fact that I'm pretty racist, because there is no way I would get involved with an Arabic man. Just no way.

"Hi, your name is... what? Abdul, Ali, whatever? Nice talking to you, bye-bye. No, no thanks, don't need you to buy me a drink, I'm leaving now. No, no, I don't have a phone. Bye."

Makes sense to me. I don't think I would even explain anything to one. I would just walk away and make sure someone walks you to your car...This Muslim who owns the corner deli not far from where I live is always trying to pick up the women & girls who come into his store. I know he is a Muslim because I asked him if he was a Sikh. I found if you want to really know what they are ask if they are Sikh..they hate each other & will tell you right away what they are. Anyway this deli guy offered my goddaughter money to marry a cousin of his. She won't go in that store and we try not to use Muslim owned businesses. I will ask if they are Sikh, I will do business with them. I hear Muslim I leave. I am certainly racist when it comes to Muslims anymore.

Okay... you know what? It's time I came to terms with the fact that I'm pretty racist, because there is no way I would get involved with an Arabic man. Just no way.
"Hi, your name is... what? Abdul, Ali, whatever? Nice talking to you, bye-bye. No, no thanks, don't need you to buy me a drink, I'm leaving now. No, no, I don't have a phone. Bye.""

Amen - AMEN - again: AMEN!!

I turned down what would have been a lucrative bookkeeping audit for embezzlement. The company was a group of family members-one owner and "family" employees- and money was disappearing. I knew in my heart that they would not like what I would find, and being white and female, I would not be believed. I also doubted they would take legal action against the possible embezzler. I said "thanks, but no thanks" and ceased discussions.
Won't date them now and didn't in the past. Won't try to be "friends" of same, either.
Too many women think they can "change" the heart of a man who is a stone cold killer from his first breath.

I turned down what might have been a

You aren't a racist, you're a realist. Those men have been raised to think women are less than human. Add to that they hate dogs and you have the distilled essence of any relationship they may have with a woman. Many of them are really nice to young men though:^)

Okay... you know what? It's time I came to terms with the fact that I'm pretty racist, because there is no way I would get involved with an Arabic man. Just no way.

"Hi, your name is... what? Abdul, Ali, whatever? Nice talking to you, bye-bye. No, no thanks, don't need you to buy me a drink, I'm leaving now. No, no, I don't have a phone. Bye."

AMEN, and I guess thanks to education & experience I am as well. As the mother of 2 girls and another girl due next month, I will be truthful in letting them know how Islam treats/uses women to be sure they don't even consider the possibilities. Maybe we'll head off all potential muslim suitors by buying them all BIG dogs (and guns) when they first move out on their own.